Two years ago our founder, Fink, found herself participating in the
National Day of Silence at fifteen years of age. That day changed
her world completely.
She was a freshman in high school, identified as straight and was
participating to support her GLBTQ friends and family. Being a
quiet girl, she figured she'd be overlooked and nothing would be
any different than any other day.
On April 26, 2006, Fink went to school with her GSA Day of Silence
button pinned on and her mouth closed tightly. She had no idea what
she was getting herself into, but she was about to find out.
That day was by far the worst of her young life; she had never
gotten so much negative attention at once. She had never really
gone against the crowd before, and she wasn't used to the backlash
she received. The same words she'd heard and ignored the day before
had become inescapable for her. She finally understood what it felt
like to be harassed for being herself, and she hated that she was
powerless to stop it not only for herself, but for the people who
had to endure it on a daily basis.
Fink was never the same again. She no longer wanted to follow the
crowd, or be quiet about what she knew was right. She wanted to
speak out, be heard and help everyone else who wanted to be heard
as well.
It was then that she adopted the name 'Fink' and began setting up a
profile and group on Myspace that would speak up for those who,
like herself, had been SpokenAgainst. She began the painstaking
process of making SpokenAgainst grow and flourish on her fifteenth
birthday.
As SpokenAgainst began to grow on Myspace, so did the number of
people who needed her help, and she was always willing to lend a
hand to them all. Sometimes it was finding the right answers to
their questions, sometimes it was educating people and helping
accept their GLBTQ friends and family, sometimes it was just being
a willing shoulder to cry on and an ear that would listen.
Sometimes Fink has had to talk to people who are against her GLBTQ
friends and sometimes she has to give advice on where to go for
more help.
Once, Fink had to talk a kid out of suicide through Myspace.
Fink has talked to hundreds and hundreds of people, who have all
told her how much she has touched their lives, and she is proud to
say the same about them.
It has been two years since SpokenAgainst's inception, and we have
spread to several sites besides Myspace, including Facebook,
VampireFreaks and YouTube, and it is finally time for Fink and her
team to begin working on SpokenAgainst's own website.
SpokenAgainst has touched the lives of countless individuals, and
has taught its members that to be heard, all you need to do is keep
talking, eventually someone will listen to you, and be true to
yourself and those around you, and you'll succeed.